The Male Perineum Spot. Learn How to Intensify His Orgams By Understanding How to Pleasure Him Here.

The Male Perineum Spot

When I ask the ladies at my party if they've experimented with their partner's perineum, I get quite a few that aren't aware of what that is. It's certainly a good thing to know about and understand because it can bring men great amounts of pleasure indeed. In fact, the ancient Chinese (who had a very advanced sexual culture) referred to the male perineum as "The Gateway to Life and Death" because of the extreme sexual response men may find there. So if you haven't explored this area with your partner, here are some facts to get you started.

Where and what is it?

The male perineum is the area of tissue (about the size of a dime) found between a man's scrotum (balls) and his anus. Just as with the female body, all of the male pelvic muscles come together at this point.

Did you know that men actually have a few more inches to their penis that you can't see? So when he's saying that he's 8 inches long (and you're thinking yes more like 6 inches buddy), he's actually being pretty accurate. Those extra few inches are inside the body and are called the "root" of the penis. The root contains hundreds of nerve endings and is one of the most sensitive parts of his penis. So when you're massaging the male perineum area, you're stimulating this "root" and these nerve endings from the outside of his body.

What's the Proper Way to Handle the Male Perineum Spot?

I suggest starting with your fingers and trying some different ways of touching his perineum and see what he likes best. Not every man responds the same so you'll need to see what your partner prefers. Start out using the pads of two or three of your slightly-lubricated fingers first (instead the point of one finger) and use a rhythmic pressure or a firm circular motion. Push slightly into his body as you're doing this. Remember you're massaging a part inside his body so you'll need to apply some pressure in order for this to be effective. However, on some men a very slight pressure is enough and for others you'll need to use more.

Later he might enjoy you using the tips of your fingers or your knuckles in a kneading or pumping motion to achieve deeper pressure. But let him communicate to you what feels good. This is most effective right when he's ready to climax and can also extend and intensify his orgasms! This male perineum massage technique is a great little "tool" to have handy when you're giving oral sex (especially if you're getting a little tired and want him to climax). It can really speed things along.

Once you've gotten him used to being "pleasured" and touched on his male perineum spot, you might want to experiment with some vibration there. A small (low speed) vibrator or bullet is best for this. Make sure you start on a very low setting until you know how much he can handle and enjoy there. Please don't turn it on "high" thinking more vibration is better. That's not the case. This is a very sensitive spot so that could actually be a very negative experience for him. Let him tell you when you can turn up the power. He'll let you know if he needs more. Some vibrators offer a "pulsing" speed which some men might like instead of constant vibration to the "spot".

Okay ladies, since, for some of you, this is a new sexual idea for you to incorporate into your sex play, try it soon and discover the possibilities. Remember trying new things and adding variety is so good and so healthy for your intimacy with your partner. Have fun!