IS YOUR SEX LIFE BORING?
FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN HAVE HOT SEX AGAIN

If you are one of these people, rest assured that you are not alone. The reality of “life in general” (work, children, family, and other responsibilities) can most certainly get in the way of being able to focus on your intimate relationship with your partner. However, it is vitally important to make your sexual relationship a priority. Let me say that again. “It is vitally important to make your sexual relationship a priority.” Lack of great, satisfying, stimulating, hot sex most definitely has a negative effect on your bond with your partner and can even have disastrous effects on your relationship if it goes on for too long.

Sometimes the realization that you haven’t had hot sex in months (or maybe even longer) slowly sneaks up on you and one day you wake up and realize that you and your partner need to take matters into your hands and do something to remedy the situation now!

Most times couples let their relationship get to this point because sex has become a bit boring. They feel like they’re in a rut. They may be going through the motions, but sex doesn’t seem any more exciting than a night out at the library so why even bother? And what they don’t realize is that it doesn’t take a lot of effort to “spice” things up and start having hot sex again. Most of the time, it’s the small, simple things that can make a big difference.

I have listed some great ideas for couples to try. You can tailor each of these ideas to your and your partner’s personality and willingness to experiment sexually. For example, the idea of watching an adult video together doesn’t have to be something that’s going to make one of you uncomfortable. You might want to start out with a provocative “R-rated” movie and work your way up to something more daring if you wish. But just the fact that you decide to watch something “sexual” together can make a huge difference!

Get Ready to Start Having Hot Sex Tonight!

• Hotter Sex Coupons - Use these “Hotter Sex” coupons with each other on special occasions or any day of the week to redeem sexy activities like “Give Each Other a Sensual Massage” or “One Night of Unlimited Foreplay” for her. There are eight of them in total. Click Here to download a printable set of your own hot sex coupons to start using right away! They make great bachelorette party gifts too! NOTE: They make take a minute or two to download, so please be patient.
• Change Your Location in the House - I know we are creatures of habit, but, yes, sex can get really boring if you always do it in the same place (which is usually the bedroom). Try another room in the house for hot sex. Sex up against a kitchen table or on a chair can get very interesting. The living room has lots of possibilities because there’s usually a comfortable couch or a chair to work with. Do you have a pool table? Well, put a towel down and hop on. What about the bathroom counter with the mirror behind you (hmmm – sounds fun to me). Do you have a guest bedroom in your house? If so, I hope you’ve already taken advantage of it. If not, it’s your first assignment (smile).
• Change Your Location Outside of the House - If you really want a change of scene, get out of the house completely! Go to a hotel (it doesn’t even have to be a super expensive one). Or think about having hot sex in public (just be sure you’re in a discreet enough place not to get caught – unless that’s part of your turn-on). There’s the beach if you live close enough to one. If it’s possible, go to your office or place of employment when it’s closed and nobody else is there (very naughty). It could even be in your own backyard. And then, there’s always the car (if you want to take a walk down memory lane – smile).

• Give Each Other Sexy Massages - Use the power of “sensual touch” for hot sex and to connect with your partner in a way you never have before. Click Here to Read More
• Sexual Fantasies and Role Playing - Did you know that some women use sexual fantasy to help them achieve orgasms? Fantasy and role-playing can be very powerful if you want to take your intimacy to a whole new level. Putting on a wig and a fantasy costume and surprising him when he gets home can really knock his socks off! You can even incorporate your role-playing when you decide to stay at a hotel. Meet at the hotel bar and “pick up on him” or vice versa and have hot sex that way. Click Here to Read More



• You be the Sexual Instigator - Do you usually wait for your partner to initiate sex? Try surprising him - when he’s least expecting it, tell him he’s going to have the most mind-blowing evening he’s ever had and supply him with some steamy details. This can be your opportunity to initiate different sexy positions as well. “Missionary” is nice but there are so many other way to switch it up!
If you need some excellent ideas, there’s a great book by Dr. Sadie Allison called “Ride ‘Em Cowgirl” . Check it out here.
• Visit a Strip Club Together - I can tell you that it took me a long time to even entertain the idea of doing this with my boyfriend at the time, but he finally talked me into it and wow, it was a real eye-opener. I had the time of my life! The women were gorgeous and it was a super sex-charged environment for sure. I found it fascinating and needless to say, when we got home, it was a very interesting evening. It was also what made me even consider doing a strip tease for my boyfriend (see below). I’m so glad I went.
• Do a Sexy Strip Tease For Him - This is something that a lot of women see as impossible because they don’t have the courage or confidence to give it a try. Once you wrap your mind around the idea, though, it can be a lot of fun (and empowering) for you and well, for your partner, let’s just say he’ll be putty in your hands. The result will be hot sex for you both. Click Here to Find Out More
• Try Talking Dirty - This is also something that is a big stretch for some women but if you can get a little outside of your comfort zone and give it a try, you'll find out how intriguing and effective it can be when you’re looking for some extra “zip” in the bedroom. Read Here to Find Out More



• Just Add Water - Playing in the water can be a rousing change of scene and can be so erotic. Who doesn’t love the feel of warm water against their skin. There is something about water and sex that brings out exhilarating, erotic feelings in us. Use it to inspire hotter sex with your partner! Put your swimsuits on (or don’t) and head to the spa or hot tub in your backyard. Include some candles and your favorite drinks and let yourselves go! The same thing goes with your swimming pool if you don’t have a hot tub. And, last but not least, the tub or shower can be a sex-charged playground for you as well.
• Sex Toys - Have you ever tried a sex toy alone or with your partner? If not, you have definitely been missing out on a whole new world of fun and excitement. Are you a little nervous about introducing toys into your relationship? Read Here to Get a Mini Education on “Adult Toys”. Consider going to an adult toy store together or shop together online.
• Watch Adult Movies Together - Adult movies can be anything from steamy R-Rated Movies to XXX-Rated Porn. Talk with your partner about this beforehand and see what you’re both comfortable with. If you’re on opposite ends of the spectrum, try and come up with a compromise that will make you both feel okay with doing this. Men are “visual” creatures which is why they like to see sex on the screen or in magazines. However, you might surprise yourself and find that you like it too!
• Read or Listen to Erotica Together - What is erotica? It’s kind of like secretly looking in on someone else’s sex-filled experiences. Or it might be pure fantasy stories that “get you in the mood” . The possibilities can be endless. My “Fabulous Books” page features three erotica books by Jenna Jamesson and one CD if you’d rather listen than read.
• Surprise Him - The element of surprise is always a nice change and there are lots of “little” things you can do to make a “big” difference. Try doing your make-up a little differently or change your hairstyle. Wear something unexpectedly sexier than you normally would around him. Have boudoir photos taken and surprise him with them. This can be a positive experience for you and can make you feel great about yourself.