Giving a Fabulous Hand Job. Learn Some New Techniques That Can Keep Him Asking For More!

Hand Jobs

Hand jobs can be "off the charts" sexy and can give your relationship a shot of that steamy "variety" it needs every now and then to keep things interesting in your bedroom. It's spontaneous and can be done in lots of places that sex cannot (especially when naked bodies are involved). Some of you are probably reminiscing about the "drive-in" during high school (if you're old enough to remember drive-in movies) or "parking" at some private spot at night and "making out" in the car. In fact, it's fun to re-create this scenario (complete with a sexy school girl's skirt and knee-hi socks) with your partner even though you're not in "high school" anymore (but that's a subject for another article).

You might have given your partner plenty of "hand-jobs" in the past, but learning a new hand sex "technique" (yes there are numerous ones) can be a fabulous surprise for him. In fact, once he finds out you've learned some different "styles", he won't be able to wait to see what you're going to try next!

Are You Hesitant to Give Him a Hand Job?

Some women tend to shy away from hand jobs because they're a little intimated thinking they could never give him the type of hand job he can give himself. They feel they'll fall short. Honestly, your hand job will never compare to his own because he has a direct connection to his own nerves and sensations (after all it's his body). I mean, let's face it ladies, he's been practicing for most of his life (smile). He's definitely the expert. However, there's nothing like a lover's caress and all the spontaneous excitement that can bring. There's a lot to be said for not knowing what's going to happen next. So just make sure you learn how he likes it done, then incorporate a few techniques he's never experienced before and you'll have him eating out of your hands (if you know what I mean).

Is There One Technique for Hand Jobs That's Better Than All the Others?

As is the case for women, all men are not created equally and what works for one man may be a "turn-off" or even irritating for another. The best way to begin is to find out how he does it himself and expand from there. Have you ever watched him masturbate? If not, ask him to show you how he does it. Hopefully, he'll be open to this and it can even be a huge "turn-on" for you as well to watch (it could lead to other "erotic surprises"). It's very HOT to sit behind him and let him lean back against you while he's doing his thing. This way you are actually seeing what he's doing from his perspective, allowing you to get a more accurate view on what's really going on. Also, he won't have the pressure of seeing you watch him (some men get performance anxiety). Watch what he does and learn from him.

Is your partner a little modest and hesitant to "go for it" in front of you? Some men actually are. If so, put your hand on his erect penis, take one of his hands and have him put it over yours and ask for his guidance. Ask him to "show" you what to do with your hand. Stress to him that you want to learn so you can understand what works best for him. How much "pressure" does he like? How fast does he want you to go? How tightly does he want you to hold on? Pay attention to all these details. Ask him yes or no questions to find out if the way you're doing it feels good for him.

LADIES, HERE'S A LITTLE TIP! Usually when we see he's climaxing, we stop pumping. In fact some of us let go completely. We think our job is done. However, most guys keep their hands moving up and down as they are having their orgasm and until it's completely over. The last 3-4 strokes can be some of the most pleasurable of all! Women tend to stop too soon. Keep on going and see it through the experience (to the very last drop). He probably won't be able to even form coherent words for a few minutes (and that's a good thing). That means he's just had a wildly fulfilling orgasm.

Using Lubricant for a Hand Job

If you don't use some type of lubricant on your hands, you'll find that your hand doesn't slide up and down his shaft easily so it's tugging and pulling on his skin. Some men will only want you to use a small amount so they can still get a desired amount of "friction" during your hand job. Excessive lube can make it too slippery for him to get any sensation, but no lube at all is not comfortable either. You might want to experiment with different lubricants to find out what he likes best. Click Here to get more information on Lubricant.

Don't be Afraid to Practice Beforehand

Just as in anything else, practice can make for a more fabulous hand job. In fact it's a good idea to try out new techniques in advance just so you can get accustomed to how your hands feel doing the movements (including how much pressure to use). That way it won't feel so foreign the first time you do it for your partner. You can use one of your dildos or penis-shaped vibrators to practice with. If you don't have something like that, use a cucumber or squash. Hold it between your knees, grab your lubricant so you can get that "slip and slide" feel and practice away until it starts feeling more natural. I promise it will get easier the more you rehearse and you'll feel more confident when you get ready to do the "real thing".

Some Various Hand Job Techniques and Tips to Add Variety

Here's a great website with videos that teach numerous ways a unique hand job can be done. Just remember, though, that in most situations, the more exotic hand-job techniques will most likely get him "worked up" and pull more pressure into his penis (and build the excitement), while the direct, long, rhythmic strokes will probably be what actually brings him to climax in the end.

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